Just a quick note on the lower levels/stages/stations etc.
As we would move into a more Kosmocenric world, whenever the center of gravity goes up, and as it is happening, there are just some things with regard to the naturally arising tendecnies (and culturally conditioned) of the lower levels that you're just going to have to say "tuff" to. i.e. no, this is not allowed.
That's the negative way of saying it, or the negative reality. The "no" reality.
But there is a positive one too, and it is displayed everyday in our children and in ourselves when we were children. The way that secretly leads us into the Romantic View. Basically, the earlier stages are transformed. Their basic and naturally arising tendencies arise and form, but how those things manifest, express themselves and in what context and so forth, is transformed. And "no's" can be changed to "yes's."
(I know I have been "hard" on the lower stages and the lower stages in children for the last couple weeks or so but that has simply been to attempt to drive home a point -or basically, sharpen a healthier attitude against the Romantic View which has much more danger in it than good.)
Anyway, as a simple example, a couple of years ago, our older children (7, 8) came to us and asked "Mommy, can black people marry white people?" We said "Yes." Their response, the naturally arising ethnocentric response, was "That's not right."
"Why not?" we asked
"Becasue, it's just . . . weird."
"Why?"
"Well, just becasue they should be with people like them."
All of this was spoken and asked with an innocent smile (truly. innocent). Naturally arising. MLK was correct about being "taught to hate" (or conditioned, even just by circumstances) but that shouldn't be misinterpreted as "taught to be ethnocentric"-it arises naturally. But all of this points to Ken's "pacer of transformation" mentioned above.
We basically explained that it was indeed "okay" for black people and white people to marry, pointed to living examples . . . and . . . they accepted it. Whether or not the ethnocentric impulse will remain or does still remain for a time . . . it's expression has now been transformed or given a pacer of transformation. (One of the reasons, if not the reason, parental "center of gravity" is so important -and it is also important to share that center of gravity with them.) By a "yes." Yes, it's alright. (And even a little bit of an idea that the question was silly to ask . . . not intentional really, but children do feel sometimes "awkward" that their truths have been challenged by parents/adults.)
To a more grown up ethnocentric, now days, we really and simply say "tuff." Tuff. You can not order the universe with this view of yours. Keep it? Fine. Push it on others? Tuff. Pacer of transformation.
So too, I think with the eventually reality and acceptence of gay marriage. It really is a civil rights issue.
Does the tendency against it naturally arise? Yes. (Or maybe even, just perhaps. Without going into an exploration here.) But we can say "tuff." You can not order the universe with this view.
And, a little later, the same happened with our children. We did wait a bit. But evnetually the subject came up and . . . "Okay, Mom and Dad. If that's how the world is ordered I guess I need to start looking at it differently."
Anyway, somehow, it does seem it eventually has to be the same, to some extent with LL technology, including guns -even if only some sorts -as has already happened -right? Ban of AK47s. Did that happen?
We do it with drugs. Right now a whole line of regular cold and caugh medicine is now gradually being taken out of easy access to the lower stages (or any) who abuse them. But that would be LL. LR is all about framing a pacer of transformation and a healthier world for all.
All for now.
"With whom or with what are you in communion at this moment?"
. . ."I?" he replied, almost mechanically. "Why not with anyone or anything."
"You must be a marvel . . . if you are able to continue in that state for long."
-Constantin Stanislavsky